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feistymiss

yep another good one Brenda, love those positive affirmations, i must admit on bad days then things like this are harder to follow but i do take these on board and like, if you have adapted to saying "thank you" to a situation, then we can also add these into our lives too small steps, become bigger over time ! i actually engage in using some of these and quite recently i was invited to a mental health meeting and i came out with the distinct impression that it was an exercise in trying to rap my knuckles i was told that i had caused trauma, and that there was a zero tolerance on ... and i countered in writing back, as well as at the time, that i would come back to them after i had time to reflect on the meeting, which i did, as well as i refuted that a trained mental health therapist could seriously become traumatised when her client /customer/service user (?) had become angry ?!!!!?! i have a strong belief in who i am, that doesnt mean i dont have need for help or that i am not considerate for another, but im certainly not going to pussy foot around someone who should be able and experienced i wasnt rude, i wasnt inconsiderate - i was actually very clear and concise, calm even but somehow it was impressed that i had "traumatised" the keyworker

December 26, 2009 - 4:50 pm

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Heather

Very nice and very true, why cant' we ever follow our own advice lol
November 28, 2009 - 11:12 pm
Weasley

This is brilliant! thanks for this Brenda, I think I need to remind myself of this everyday. I'm going to print it out.
December 7, 2009 - 4:49 am
feistymiss

yep another good one Brenda, love those positive affirmations, i must admit on bad days then things like this are harder to follow but i do take these on board and like, if you have adapted to saying "thank you" to a situation, then we can also add these into our lives too small steps, become bigger over time ! i actually engage in using some of these and quite recently i was invited to a mental health meeting and i came out with the distinct impression that it was an exercise in trying to rap my knuckles i was told that i had caused trauma, and that there was a zero tolerance on ... and i countered in writing back, as well as at the time, that i would come back to them after i had time to reflect on the meeting, which i did, as well as i refuted that a trained mental health therapist could seriously become traumatised when her client /customer/service user (?) had become angry ?!!!!?! i have a strong belief in who i am, that doesnt mean i dont have need for help or that i am not considerate for another, but im certainly not going to pussy foot around someone who should be able and experienced i wasnt rude, i wasnt inconsiderate - i was actually very clear and concise, calm even but somehow it was impressed that i had "traumatised" the keyworker
December 26, 2009 - 4:50 pm

HAPPY HOMEWORK Brenda - November 28, 2009

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